I have always hated to follow categories and classifications. I have always made a conscious effort of not wanting to write about and also, in the way, most people write. I have time and again, tried to deviate from the repetitive status updates that keep popping up on facebook! But, if you are in Delhi, there is no way in Pandara Road, that you would get through the season without talking about the winterness of it.
While I write winterness repeatedly here, I am aware of the fact that there are a couple of grammar nazis standing right behind me with their guns pointed at the back of my head. My intention is not to malign the Queen’s language, but to only bring out the feeling that is associated with this season, with a simple new word.
What is winterness? It is a certain ‘nature’ of things in this season I guess. If you concentrate long enough on the make belief fable that your life has been, you would notice that the biggest part of you getting into a relationship or breaking it, has most often happened in winters. Your best and worst memories, in general, revolve around this season. Is it a heightened sense of consciousness? Do you get soft and pudgy inside during this season? I would think not. Its the winterness of things.
Everyone agrees that curling up, with that hot cup of tea or coffee is perhaps the best way to spend your winter hours. Also, if you could perhaps, pull a “polar bear”, it does not seem like a bad proposition either. It is this very conflict of interests that intrigues me. When your physical prowess can hardly be termed as anything but enterprising, how is it that the biggest, fondest and sometimes, the ugliest memories always revolve around this season?
I have also noticed a certain change that develops in the people around us. They seem to be less hostile, especially if you don’t call them in the morning at nine. There might even be the odd case of someone trying to get friendly with you. I have discussed this with friends and they tell me that it has nothing to do with the season; its just that the summer doesn’t leave room for much else, other than sweating. I refuse to believe it somehow.
I have nothing else to say on this, except for the fact, that I am a part of the experiences that I have described above. I can scarcely remember any other time that I have written on similar lines anywhere, let alone on a blog. I would like to believe its the winterness of things.